04 July 2014

Service Dog Update



Long Update on Service Dog Training:

Today is our last day in NC after a full week working with my mentor and his amazing team of trainers who I also get to call my friends. I am sad to be leaving Jack but we will be reunited again in a co
uple of months once he is fully finished with his training.

I had such an great time working with the TK9 team and am so grateful for them putting so much time and effort into this project.

Jacks tracking is really amazing. I was a little rusty  but he was on point each time. I know with full confidence that if Grayson were to get away from us (god forbid) he would be the dog I would want finding him. He is incredibly fast. Once he picks up that scent he is off!

We ran him on hard surfaces (such as a road) and also ran him through fields of tall grass, the woods, and even a tract that started at the front of a building then ran along it, through an opening of trees, through a field and ending behind a shed .. And no matter what was thrown at him he did great!

We worked him in building searches, where we hid Grayson in a room and have Jack take a whiff of the odor from a scent article of Grayson and then go find him and he did it easy as cake. Grayson even enjoyed it. Found it funny!
((I had Grayson in is stroller and just placed him in different rooms of different buildings we used while someone else hung out with him so I could handle Jack)).

We had a little hiccup with the bark alert, as he is not the barking kind. The TK9 trainers have tried and tried and pulled all their tricks out of their hats and I tried the week while I was here and barking as an alert just isn't going to happen. Some dogs just don't do it. Jacks temperament is SO easy going and relaxed which is 200% what we wanted for the companionship of Grayson, that even though he is super playful, he is quiet. But that's OK! We have decided to go with a "re-find" which is just as good, if not better in a sense.

For a bark alert to "work" properly, you have to hope you are in ear shot when the dog alerts or else you may not hear it. With a re-find, it doesn't matter where you are, the dog will come find you once the action has been done that you have taught him to alert you on... For us, it is Grayson trying to open doors on his own and "escape" out of the house. So with the re-find, instead of Jack barking when Grayson tries to open a door, he will run and find me. So if I happen to be in the laundry room, or taking a shower, or somewhere where it may be louder and I not hear the bark from a bark alert.. He will just come find me and I will know something is happening that shouldn't be. This is a skill that a great percentage of SAR (Search and Rescue) dogs are trained to do because the handlers are not always in ear shot for a bark alert.. And well, Jack is essentially trained to be a SAR dog.

So even though we initially were hoping for a bark alert, this new direction we are going in is going to work out just as good and I'm very happy it with! It's going to work out very well for what we are wanting to accomplish.

They will be working hard over the next couple of months to get the re-find in place using another former trainer of TK9 and her children as practice. It's okay that he will "alert" when other children try to get out of a door and then alert another adult other than myself. Here's why: we don't want ANY child in our home, family, friend..etc to escape, so him alerting on any child is a GOOD thing. And his re-find returning to any adult is okay too because it won't always be me at home with him. Zak will be there, our family may be watching him or a babysitter..etc.. So the goal his for him to do a re-find based on any child ---> adult that way he will go find whoever the adult is watching Grayson no matter what, even if I'm not around.. And he will come find me as well even if it's another child that may be over trying to "break away".

We will all then fine tune it with the trainers once he is brought up to us.

Over the next couple of months they will also finish fine tuning the "anchor" as well as his off-leash OB which are both coming along super nicely!

His natural companionship shined through this week while I kept him at my best friends house. Companionship toward Grayson was not "trained" into him, it come naturally for Jack. His temperament sets the stage for it and he shined when paired with Grayson.


Grayson quickly learned that Jack was there for him and that he could lay with him, play with him..etc.. And Jack quickly started to bond with Grayson, following him about, wanting to lay next to him on the floor when Grayson would just be sitting there playing. Jack even napped in the room with Grayson which is great to see already as the goal is to have Jack sleep with Grayson every night.


I could go on and on about Jack and all the great qualities I have already seen in him.. Not just in training but him with Grayson.. But since I have already written a novel, I'll wrap it up.

A giant thank you to Girard (Jerry) Bradshaw and his team of trainers at Tarheel Canine for taking on this project. They have done an amazing job thus far and I know the fully finished Jack will be one heck of a dog!

If you are considering a dog for Service or Working purposes, looking for training for your own dog, or even looking into becoming a trainer..please check out www.tarheelcanine.com I assure you, you will not be disappointed!







13 April 2014

Dear Grayson (4.7.2014 - 4.13.2014)

Dear Grayson,

Well this week was a pretty easy week huh? Instead of just the usual half day on Friday, you had an additional half day on Wednesday as well which meant I got to hang out with you double amounts of fun!

After I picked you up on Wednesday you came with me so I could show you off to our friends at the Pure Barre studio, and as with most everyone who meets you, hearts melted. This was your second time at the studio and you were much more comfortable than last week. You were running across the studio floor over and over/back and forth and then we showed you the work out balls, which were bouncy, oh yes, and you were having so much fun throwing them to me and the instructors! I think you are going to be a super champ at Special Olympics this year!

Thursday, while you were in class, Daddy and I were also at your school for your IEP Meeting. I was really nervous, not because of you, we love you more than you could ever imagine.. I have just heard bad stories about IEP meetings and it's also harder to sit around and talk about the "delays" and "set backs". However, the meeting was wonderful. We keep up with your teachers daily and well, we know you better than anyone, so we know what needs focus on of your development and instead of focusing on the delays and concerns, they focused on what they have been doing this past year, goals for this new school year, and what they are going to do to help you reach those goals.. And that my little man, was up lifting. The team of teachers and therapists that stand behind you are, well, pretty amazing to say the least. They see a world of potential in you and know you just need the right tools and a little time to achieve great things.

I have heard of many parents that go into IEP Meetings ready for war, having to fight to keep certain services and just simply to be heard by the team.. Not your team buddy. They explained everything and the listened with open ears if Daddy and I had questions or wanted to speak up about something. They also added services without us even asking or fighting for it. What did they add? ABA! You know the lady who comes into your class sometimes during the week? Well, she has offered In-Home ABA Therapy for you added into your IEP which means it will be free of charge to us.. I know you may not understand right now, but that truly is priceless.. That therapy is going to help you SO much and I cannot wait to see what you achieve through it!

After the meeting Daddy and I snuck around to the side of the playground to sneak a peek at you playing :) you didn't see us but we sure saw you and as always, love seeing you in that environment with all your friends! Oh! And your teachers told us that during circle when they were singing "We're Going On A Bear Hunt" you actually did one of the motions that they try to teach you and your classmates for the song! That is so awesome! They said that I can come in one day this coming week and they will show me the hand motions so I can do it with you at home...see what I mean? Awesome teachers.

What else this week? Oh, you tried banana... Annnnnd you did not like it at all. Am I surprised? Not in the least because I really really dislike bananas!


Also, you and Daddy were twins for a day which was cute! Annnd you have been enjoying lots of scribbling this week which is awesome! Real scribbling too and without me having to "hand over hand". So proud of you!

Other than all of that we have just been playing outside a lot after school this week because the weather is finally turning warmer! You have been having a lot of fun with your lawnmower as well, it's super cute :) Your allergies are acting up a bit though :-/ hopefully the Claritin starts working on a normal basis because I know exactly how miserable allergies can be and I don't want you to feel that way at all!

You're getting to be quite adventurous outside too, which is exciting and wonderful to see but also pretty scary for Mommy. I know you are trying to be more independent so don't get upset with me when I keep trying to bring you back to a certain area or keep you from going somewhere.. I am just trying to keep you safe so you can continue your adventures for many years to come!

This week coming up is a 4 day school week as Friday starts your very first ever Spring Break! We will be going to Texas to visit family there and have a big belated family birthday party for you.. Yep that's right, you will have had TWO birthday parties this year!

Time for Mommy to wrap this up..Here's to another great week little man!

I love you -to the monster star and back...

Love,

Mommy 



"Dear Grayson"

Hi Everyone,

Notice any new changes to the blog? Yep, just about everything!

As you can see I have been pretty inactive on here for awhile so I am changing it up a bit.

I have decided to rename this blog as "Dear Grayson" where I will be writing a blog post once a week as if I am writing to Grayson. The post will be pretty lengthy since 1. I am "recapping" an entire week and 2. I write a lot...always...plain and simple.

I apologize for not keeping up with this page since I created the FB Page but I hope you will enjoy the new changes and begin following along again!

-Emily